I’ve been hearing recently that the “beauty standards” have changed. Let me be very clear, the beauty standards have not changed! There are just far more fat people in America now than ever before which understandably has led companies to consider their bottom line. Furthermore, because women make up the majority of fat people, and the economy is largely driven by female consumerism, any competent business owner would decide to cater their marketing toward the market’s driving forces. That being said, companies marketing to cater to fat women has not changed the male perspectives on beauty, it just pushed those perspectives beneath the surface.
The reality is, men in mass will never find fat women attractive, that’s why YouTube has seen the emergence of the “Manosphere”. No amount of marketing(programming) is going to change men’s innate nature. Furthermore, accountability is a word that often gets overlooked, to achieve the results in life that you aspire for, you must take accountability for your actions/decisions, if you are fat; your decisions/actions made you fat, take accountability for yourself and take the necessary steps to address it. Lastly, this was not a hit piece on women, I love people (women in particular) and I hope to see strong relationships form once again, but the notion that men should accept you as you are; especially if you’re fat, is asinine, particularly because you don’t accept them as they are. Peace & Love!